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http://forum.collegetimes.us/tags/sex College Forum to discuss admissions, financial aid, SAT prep, Greek organizations, campus clubs, politics, etc. en-US Mon, 06 Feb 2012 06:52:18 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.3 q http://forum.collegetimes.us/search.php http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/friends-with-benefits#post-1611 Fri, 20 Aug 2010 17:26:05 +0000 Anonymous 1611@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Pretty simple. Not really a relationship, just sex. "No string attached." </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/convincing-a-man-youre-his-perfect-match#post-1311 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:44:22 +0000 Anonymous 1311@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Men and women like different things. And when it comes to letting a man know you're what he wants, you have to challenge and interest him on a lot of levels. You just need to convince him you are what he wants. And with a bit of delicate maneuvering, you can do just that. Becoming his perfect match has never been easier.</p> <p>Physically Enticing Your Perfect Match</p> <p>Playing hard to get is a surefire way to convince a man he wants you. When you see a guy you like, act uninterested. Don't give in when he notices you. Acknowledge him, but no matter how much you like him, make him keep working for it. This will make him try harder. Even after you're together, you want your perfect match to work to keep the relationship going. Make him work to make you happy. His pursuit will keep both of you happy. He knows you're what he wants and you know that he wants you.</p> <p>Mentally Enticing Your Perfect Match</p> <p>When you engage someone mentally, it keeps them guessing about who you are. When you show that you're interested in a lot of things and that you like to learn, it makes you seem interested. It shows that you are involved in the world and that you take an interest in different things. It also keeps your perfect match guessing about the things you're interested in and he'll work harder to tell you about things that he thinks might interest you. When you challenge someone mentally, it shows that you are someone they want to spend time with because they can challenge you, too. Learn what you can about the subjects that interest you. It's good for you and for convincing your man that he's your perfect match.</p> <p>Sexually Enticing Your Perfect Match</p> <p>When you're dating someone, you want him to know that you enjoy sex just as much as he does. Even if you don't want to have sex with someone, you should still show that you enjoy intimacy. One way to do this is to share the fact that you have sexual fantasies with your perfect match. Sharing specifics turns him on and tells him that you will be an interesting bed partner. Other things you can do include:</p> <p>• Letting him know you don't need him to enjoy yourself in bed. When a woman tells a guy that she can take care of herself, it makes him want her more because it tells him she's a sexual creature and he wants a piece of that.<br /> • Let him know you're wearing sexy panties. Or better yet, that you're going commando. For guys, it's all about the visual stuff. So if he can imagine you wearing something sexy, or even better, that you're half-naked, half the job is already done.</p> <p>If you want to convince a man that you're his perfect match, you need to show him that you are what he wants on a lot of different levels. This means being confident in who you are and meeting his needs on mental, physical and sexual levels.</p> <p>[i]Joy O'Toole is a well versed writer in the professional dating scene, [url=http://www.romanceprosblog.com/]compatible matches[/url], and online dating. She has been writing and advising about compatibility, love affairs, soulmates, romance, and finding the perfect match for a long time. She is versed and knowledgeable about the best place to find [url=http://www.romanceprosblog.com/]romance pros[/url], online dating, and professional matchmakers that really work. Her favorite thing about online dating and matchmaking services are the end results, finding true love.[/i] </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/std-prevention-and-safe-sex-tips#post-1310 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:31:41 +0000 Anonymous 1310@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Being uninformed about sexually transmitted diseases (STD) would most likely be the main culprit for people being infected with diseases. Thus, reading this article would likely be your first step of prevention in acquiring those undesirable sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes, gonorrhea, HIV/AIDS and the like. STD prevention is actually quite easy, but it may require some small changes in one's lifestyle if a person's sexual activities and partners are varied. </p> <p> Here are some ways in making sure that you are on alert for STD prevention: </p> <p> 1. Abstain from Sexual Activity: Of course this is usually more appropriate for the more prudent members of the society, or those who have actually taken a vow of chastity. Abstinence for STD prevention is quite a drastic measure to take, and may not be so realistic for most adults, especially who have committed themselves to long term partners and those who plan to have children. </p> <p> 2. Choose Sexual Partners Carefully: STD prevention is highly probable if one is able to really select their sexual partners. This is a very important guideline, by which people are encouraged to maintain a sexual relationship with a single partner for a long period of time. Monogamy is highly encouraged in order to maintain STD prevention. It is also a very good idea to ensure that your partner has not had any other or has not had a variety of sexual partners prior to your relationship. If this is the case, then what would be a very good step to take is to have both of you tested for any possibility of having sexually transmitted diseases. This will be necessary to prevent the spread of any possible disease from being passed on to other people, especially if a couple is thinking of creating a family in the future. </p> <p> 3. Engage in Safe Sex: If monogamy is too boring for your lifestyle, then the next best step to take is to practice safe sexual relations. Making sure that your partner has no sexually transmitted disease by carefully examining them, or even to the point of asking them point blank if they have been personally vigilant about STD prevention, would be an acceptable practice prior to engaging in a possibly risky sexual activity. Use of protection, such as condoms or dental dams, may be uncomfortable or may decrease the enjoyment of the sexual activity, but this will highly reduce the risk of any of you acquiring viruses of sexually transmitted diseases from your potential partners. </p> <p> 4. Consult a Healthcare Practitioner: If the third step was not observed, then the next thing to do is to consult a healthcare practitioner immediately after having unprotected sex. Another step involved in this is to refrain from other sexual activities after having unprotected sex, so that in case you have contracted a virus, then it would not be spread unnecessarily. This step should be taken even if one has not exhibited any symptoms of an STD. STD prevention goes beyond preventing it from happening to you, but this goes to the extent of preventing STDs from spreading to other people. </p> <p> A big part of STD prevention is getting oneself tested in order to ensure that one does not have any unwanted STDs. Get tested for STD now, and be safe. </p> <p> 15 million people contract STD's every single year. Are you one of the 1 in 4 people walking around with an STD and you don't even know it? We can help you identify if you have contracted one as well as the best STD prevention tips. Come get your FREE REPORT on checking for and fixing any potential STD problem at <a href="http://www.STDChecker.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.STDChecker.com</a> </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/friends-with-benefits#post-1309 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 14:23:19 +0000 Anonymous 1309@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Does anyone out there actually believe this can work out well? I've definitely encountered plenty of college students who maintain "booty-call" friends and crap but I don't think these people are "friends."</p> <p>[url=http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friends%20with%20benefits]Urban Dictionary[/url] says:</p> <p>"Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogamous relationship or any kind of commitment."</p> <p>...exactly how does someone not get "emotionally involved"...? </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-1074 Thu, 01 Oct 2009 06:36:13 +0000 Anonymous 1074@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>I looking for a man with a big kind heart tat will understand and love me, predominantly it&#39;s a dream </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-1073 Thu, 01 Oct 2009 06:34:04 +0000 Anonymous 1073@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>i want to be there sometime </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-993 Sun, 13 Sep 2009 22:31:56 +0000 Anonymous 993@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>I wonder if anyone from UCI ever goes there LOL </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-990 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 17:26:44 +0000 Anonymous 990@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <blockquote><p><cite>Karamel318 <a href="//forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-989&quot;">said</a>:</cite><br /> The modest pasties make me laugh.</p> <p>It&#39;s like writing the word &quot;fuck&quot; like &quot;f*ck&quot;.We all know what word that is,why bother with the asterik? </p></blockquote> <p>lmao. I can&#39;t think of anything to add to that. </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-989 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 17:06:39 +0000 Anonymous 989@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>The modest pasties make me laugh.</p> <p>It&#39;s like writing the word &quot;fuck&quot; like &quot;f*ck&quot;.We all know what word that is,why bother with the asterik? </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/lake-havasu-memorial-day-2009-half-naked-college-girls#post-988 Sat, 12 Sep 2009 15:35:13 +0000 Anonymous 988@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>[i]Related article:[/i] <a href="http://collegetimes.us/15-hottest-female-news-anchors/" rel="nofollow">http://collegetimes.us/15-hottest-female-news-anchors/</a><br /> [i]Related article:[/i] <a href="http://collegetimes.us/10-ways-for-guys-to-last-longer-in-bed/" rel="nofollow">http://collegetimes.us/10-ways-for-guys-to-last-longer-in-bed/</a></p> <p>Holy lord. Being from Southern California, most debauchery in college that I overheard were lame (yet, given... bizarre!) stories from weekend trips to Vegas, that didn't quite "stay in Vegas."</p> <p>Enter the Spring Break and Memorial Day houseboat and lake parties that are beginning to take the Western/MidWestern/(???) US college crowds by storm over the past few years.</p> <p>Lake Havasu (Arizona), Lake Shasta (NorCal), and others are becoming the new "cabin in the woods" for massive parties that, apparently, are being [url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/]staked out by professional photographers[/url]... (or students with very, very expensive zoom lenses).</p> <p>...and you thought your MySpace page might lose you a job interview?</p> <p>[img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-80.jpg?w=600[/img]</p> <p>[url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/lake-havasu-party-girls-100/][img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-100.jpg?w=83&amp;h=125[/img][/url] [url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/lake-havasu-party-girls-33/][img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-33.jpg?w=125&amp;h=83[/img][/url] [url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/lake-havasu-party-girls-51/][img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-51.jpg?w=83&amp;h=125[/img][/url] [url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/lake-havasu-party-girls-11/][img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-11.jpg?w=125&amp;h=75[/img][/url] [url=http://coedmagazine.com/2009/05/25/lake-havasu-memorial-day-party-girls-gallery/lake-havasu-party-girls-27/][img]http://coedmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2009/05/lake-havasu-party-girls-27.jpg?w=125&amp;h=83[/img][/url] </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-960 Mon, 07 Sep 2009 00:08:53 +0000 Anonymous 960@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>I think that through dating around you get to meet the person that you&#39;re gonna eventually marry. I mean, if you didn&#39;t date around, and I married the first person I got together with, I personally would have doubts of whether or not she was the right one for me since I really didn&#39;t try things out LOL.</p> <p>I do think that being comfortable is very important tho! </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-207 Sun, 23 Aug 2009 12:04:38 +0000 Anonymous 207@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>You must feel comfortable, like roraima said. You must be able to make fun. Go to placing the other one wants to, sometimes even if you don&#39;t realy want to. The same he or she has to do with you.<br /> You don&#39;t have to try to look interested, but don&#39;t just don&#39;t hate it. Be yourself! </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-162 Sun, 23 Aug 2009 05:33:45 +0000 Anonymous 162@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Have enough similarities to get you talking, but enough differences to keep the talks interesting.</p> <p>I&#39;m already married, but when I was dating I looked for that &quot;I&#39;m so lucky I&#39;m dating them&quot; feeling.I guess I was always looking for something big, and grew bored easily.</p> <p>And family, if they&#39;re important enough they meet my family, and if either side doesn&#39;t like them or they&#39;re not compatible then it isn&#39;t meant to be.Everyone has their items that they won&#39;t compromise on, and that&#39;s mine. </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-93 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 18:40:32 +0000 Anonymous 93@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Dating around is fair enough, because you can&#39;t really go around starting a relationship with the notion of staying together forever. You have to start the relationship and get to really know the person, before you can make any plans. They may seem perfect to you at first, but turn out to be not the one for you. To be fair, it works the other way round as well. You could start a relationship with someone you thought was alright, and they turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you. </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-39 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 09:45:30 +0000 Anonymous 39@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>I&#39;m actually really against the whole &quot;date-around&quot; philosophy a lot of college student subscribe to. I guess I&#39;m old-fashioned, but I feel like it&#39;s important that someone you&#39;re in a relationship with is someone you can imagine spending the rest of your life with. I didn&#39;t date at all throughout high school and was lucky enough to find the right person towards the end of my first semester in college.</p> <p>I think it&#39;s important to make sure that you&#39;re friends with your boyfriend or girlfriend before you take your relationship to the next level. Hooking-up is a terrible invention :P </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-18 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 05:54:59 +0000 Anonymous 18@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>Yea, I&#39;d have to agree with you on that Roraima, the most important thing is how comfortable you are with the other person. What&#39;s the point in having a gf or bf if you think you always have to put on an act to please the person? </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-14 Sat, 22 Aug 2009 01:33:31 +0000 Anonymous 14@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>The most important issue here is how comfortable you feel around the other person, how much the oh respects your views and how sticks by you, the rest might be important at first but as time goes by it loses importance: looks. believe you me gets boring... </p> http://forum.collegetimes.us/topic/most-important-things-to-look-for-in-a-girlfriend-or-boyfriend#post-13 Thu, 20 Aug 2009 20:11:36 +0000 Anonymous 13@http://forum.collegetimes.us/ <p>I continue to be surprised these days by how many young people date without regard to their &quot;future&quot; i.e. getting married etc. Many peeps seem fine with the notion that they are just having fun, or filling a temporary need or whatev.</p> <p>So I&#39;m wondering what other young people out there consider to be the most important things to look for when choosing or staying with a long-term or short-term bf or gf?</p> <p>Hmm... </p>